today is tuesday-i have nothing to do really and i have no motivation either...this morning i had a friend over for coffee and then i went to but my husband some aa batteries since the past couple days he keeps mentioning that we need them..and i finally got the hint that i was saposed to go and get some:) i stopped at taco bell for lunch and then went to the library to rent some workout videos-they had a belly dancing workout video that i thought"hey i have time..why dont i learn how to belly dance and get fit in the process" ill let you no how that goes..considering i have no cooridation..i dont think it will end well..but noone will see me so its worth a try.i have decided to use this blog so that my family knows what im doing on days we dont talk on the phone:) also as a place of sharing all my random halarious moments...im excited..hopefully i get the time to write and hopefully its of somewhat interest to my readers(i sounded so professional there)
for those of you who i have not spoken to in a while...
life here in the carolinas is wonderful-i love my new home and i love the new relationships im building.i still have days where all i wana do is sit down with an old friend and talk about the old days..but on those days i remember this is where im at and i need to make the most of it.adjusting to life here hasnt been that hard actually..i have my days of course..but for the most part i feel like ive adjusted really well.i still have days where ill be driving along and suddenly ill look around and be like wow!its crazy that i really live here..:) and i say that in a good way.one of the biggest reason matt would hate living in pa is because whereever you go you see someone you know..down here its not at all like that!!and that shows how diferent he and i are because thats one thing that i miss the most!
i still do not have a job-ive applied at a few places ..but none worked out..i keep thinkin God has a reason for this..and though i cant see it now hopefuly some day i will.i do help out an elderly coupls one day a week for 2 hours..i go to there house,clean up there house,do there laundrey and always drink apple juice with the lady of the house who is 93 years old..shes a jewel too!i love her dearly.
we have a house dog..shes a yorkie and shes 6 mon ths old-she was born a week before out wedding and we got her 7 weeks later...she keeps me occupied..i dont no what id do without her..i wake up everymorning and shes right there..so we have our morning chat and get on with our day..she follows me every where i go and it crazks me up because every now and again shes try to "take the lead"and run in front of me thinkin that ill follow her..when i dont of course she just goes back to what she was meant to do and follow me:)i love her soo much and think she is just the cutest 4 legged thing ive ever seen:)she not completely house trained yet..but getting there.her accidents are gettin less and less..for a while she went with us every where but then my husband started gettin concerned that people wouldnt want to have us over anymore cause well be those people who "Always bring there dog" so we cut back on that..2 places shes always allowed to go with is to matts mom and dads house and matts uncle and aunts house-they love her so much that when we leave there house she whines the whole way home..they spoil her allot!!
our house is still waiting for the outside paint job-not sure when that will happen..hopefully this summer..and we started working on fixing up the landscape last week..matts got some awesome ideas for the outside that hes plannin on doin this spring.i cant wait for that cause i love being outside!i absoluitely love my house..i dont know that a day goes by that i dont sit down look around and think "oh i love my house" my husband did sucha wonderful job in re doing it! its so cozy and warm to me and its the perfect size for our little family:)we do have a speare room witha VERY comfy bed for all you who want to come visit!!:)
We have a really awkward neighbor boy!(dont let this scare you off from coming to visit though!)-hes probably about 14 years old and for some reason he like to watch me whenever im outside..it got really weird for me..because he would actually sit on the property line and just watch me-so obviously watch me too..like ill look at him and he will look at me and not stop.. he wont be outside so ill go out and minutes after im out..he'll come out..and of course watch me..i got so upset about this so matt made me go outside last week and he wtched form inside the house..sure enough..little boy comes out..little boy takes his seat..little boy watches ony... so i called matt..he comes out goes to the property line and just glares at the kid..the kid got really uncomortable and quickly walked to the front of the house..so matt followed him..and just glared for a while...after that he stopped watching...if it continues to happen matts gana go talk to him cause its just ridiculous and really awkward for me!other then that we have excellent neighbors:)
the people behind us have a 12 yr old girl whose just a sweet heart..she likes to come up and play with electra and tell me about her day:)2 weeks ago she went with me to take electra to the vet..and she was so thrilled:) i need to make an appoint to do more things with her.
i enjoy the church down here..that was probably my biggest adjustment when i moved here..it was so different then my church in pa and i found it hard not to think about my home church..but after 6 months im feeling it more and more being my "home church" :) i am singning on the worship team..my cousin is the worship leader and i love the team we have..the past 2 practices we have all had moments of belly laughing:) our worship time at church is so God lead its amazing...and i love being a part of the team!
Marriage-its hard to beleive weve been married for 6 months!where does the time go?! were definately past the honey moon stage and around about christmas i felt "hardcore marriage" step in..but its been amazing..all the new things i continue learning about him..the things that make him anoyed or happy..its incredible and i love this journey were on..he is an amazing husband.he always wants me to be happy and thats something i forget about him..but he will do anything..one big thing i have figured out about myself is being the baby of the family i was alwys so used to being "bossed" around..i never got to tell other people to do stuff for me cause i was the baby..i did that for others and i enjoyed it..so being married to a man who really wants to do things for me..i find that hard.. i would meniton things that i needed to do or get done and he would offer to do them for me and i would about flip through the roof !i always figured if its something i dont want to do then surely he wouldnt want to do them either so i might as well jsut do it myself..so many times he would say "oh well ill go out and get some butter ."and id be like no its ok ill go. andthis really bothered him.finaly one day we sat down and talked about this and i was shocked when he said "if i say i wana do something for you ..i mean it." i meen this made absolutely no sence to me!!!haha but im learning to let him do things for me:)he is so good to me and treats me wonderfully! so good that he allowed my mom , 2 sister and 3 neices to come here last weekend and spend the weekend with us in our tiny house..and he stayed here with us all weekend!!bless his heart..he didnt mind it one bit either he says:) this house was full let me tell you..there was barely any room to walk..but we had the best time!! and i was soo thankfulk to him for makin them feel so comfortable and for enjoying having them here because he knew it made me happy!
i plan on goin to Pa easter weekend and amm sooooo excited to see my whole family and my dear friends!! so please stop by my parents to see me:) im actually going to pa allot in april! im goin up with my inlaws for the gospel express sale and at this point am planning on staying till the next weekend (a week and a half) my friends durrell and alley are getting married the next weekend so im thinkin ill just stay and then matt will come up for the wedding as well..hopefuly that will all work out!so hopefuly then i can see a bunch of friends as well..
well this post is gettin dangerously long..soo i will bid you all farewell!:) i will try to write on here often i cant promise it will always be interesting but hopefully you all will feel like your a part of my every day life :)
love to all!!!
Ony Mullet (p.s. i still am not used to my new last name!)
